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FEELING STUCK!
by Martin Kelman

We all get the feeling that we are "stuck" at times in our growth. There are many reasons for this "feeling" and we must realize that it is, just a feeling and not a reality. It is usually caused by the measurement of outside circumstances over various periods of time. This is not wrong or bad and we all do it. It is difficult to pin down exactly what causes these phenomena, but emotions can be physically, mentally, and spiritually affected and we must realize that we are not separate entities. Do you not think that the many wars on this planet do not affect us? The planets, solar flares, events throughout the universe all affect us. We are all connected. TRUST IN SPIRIT. IT IS THE MATTER THAT CONNECTS ALL OF US.

There are very good reasons for being stuck. A good reason to be stuck is that it makes us look at our progress in many different ways. It makes us focus on what is making us feel stuck. Is it our job? Am I still happy there? Is it fulfilling my goals? The work environment is an important factor. Generally, when viewed in different time frames, one can see benefits to "the job", and begin to understand why we are at a particular job. Have I met some important people through the workplace? Have I met one good friend through the workplace? We are here to learn and face challenges, and evolve. Is the job helping me learn new skills I will use in the future? Am I sending love to those who are presenting a challenge to my happiness? There are many reasons to be exactly where you are! Ask yourself if you are ready for a new job and new challenges. Ask God/universe if you are ready for the next step in your journey. Ask for the help necessary to get to the next part of your journey and you will surely be heard. TRUST IN GOD

Many of us are stuck in, or out of relationships. Are we lonely in a relationship? Are we uncomfortable within ourselves or just feel incomplete? Are we afraid to live alone? Many of us feel all of this and more. Are we unhappy with ourselves? We look and can’t seem to find the right partner. It may be that we are not quite ready for a relationship. It may be that our partner needs time to finish with other business before they meet you. Are we seeking a partner to fulfill that part of our selves which only spirit can fill? Ask yourself these questions and more. Remember that you are complete and wonderful as a separate entity. The three primary motivators of the universe, love, fear and creativity, should be looked at as to how to solve these problems. Sometimes it is better to ask God to help you grow so you will be ready for your partner. Sometimes it is better to ask for a life partner than "the one for you" or a twin flame. While you are waiting, learn and grow and improve yourself! ASK AND TRUST SPIRIT

Materialism: How am I doing? Do I have a place to live? Can I pay my bills? How will I amass money? What do I need to survive? What do I need to live well? What if things change and I lose my job or health? These are all valid and important questions. How much time do we wish to devote to this type of security? Am I making enough progress on the materialistic aspect of life? Yes, it is most wonderful to have money, or prosperity, or a steady stream of income. If you are not receiving this, and feel you are not able to generate income or prosperity, then indeed you are stuck! Learn to truly love and respect yourself, and know that your time and knowledge are invaluable. Understand this and then ask spirit for prosperity, and it will surely come. TRUST IN SPIRIT!

Spiritual Growth: This one drives me crazy. I really want to help this world. I want to contribute. I want to raise the vibration of this planet. I want balance in my life. I want to be at peace and light up this world with God’s loving light. For only when are we all evolving, will we truly all evolve as one. Seems like a big task.
Sometimes I will go a week without apparently helping anyone, or doing nothing of significance. Thankfully, I get reminded what is important for I don’t always know. Was it a smile? Some patience when it was really required? A kind word and encouragement counts too! Do I add it up? Do I keep score? Obviously not, but we have been programmed to measure, to standardize and categorize, all of which have little to do with spirit. So I am a creature of habit, but I am also an emerging new persona as well. I am becoming another person but the old person with my old habits and thought patterns continue to stubbornly hold on. All of this and more goes through my head. How will this world change? Am I doing enough? Never I say. The new me says be patient and all will come. My guides have been faithful and loving and right time and again. My Lord showers loving energy upon me, and the loving vibration of the flowers and trees tingle my body. My spiritual healings have helped many connect to the spirit world, and my readings have helped many with broken hearts, unanswered questions, and direction.

THIS IS WHAT I TRUST….
TRUST IN SPIRIT AND A UNIVERSE WHICH HAS GRAND PLANS FOR ALL OF US
TAKE ONE STEP IN SPIRIT AND SPIRIT WILL TAKE A THOUSAND FOR YOU
THAT SPIRIT IS WORKING ALL THE TIME ON OUR BEHALF AND DOES NOT STOP
IT IS ALWAYS PRESENT
ALWAYS LOVING
AND ALWAYS HEARS OUR PRAYERS AND ANSWERS THEM LOVINGLY

Sometimes we are stuck so that we may examine all the stresses that have built up within us. We are stuck because we are supposed to be stuck and the trick is to figure out why we are stuck.
There is always a solution for this problem.
Spirit does not present questions for which there are no solutions.
It is a time to reflect, to purge anger, to release, to understand, to cry, to be humbled. It is a most precious time. Use it well.

With much love and light

Martin Kelman

www.spiritualguidance.ca